Embracing Our Mistakes, an article from Victoria Sampler's Newsletter

 

Embracing our mistakes in Cross Stitch Making mistakes in cross stitching is a common and natural part of the crafting journey and can stem from various reasons. For instance, miscounting stitches is a frequent issue, especially with intricate patterns where losing track can lead to misplaced stitches and inaccuracies. In order to avoid this most common tendency, I recommend that you baste all around your project with a sewing thread before you start. Also, baste a horizontal and vertical thread in the middle of your fabric. Your basting stitches can go over and under 4 fabric threads to help you count! Then as you stitch, check back frequently to see if it aligns with your pattern. Using the wrong color is another common mistake, often occurring when threads are not organized or when the pattern uses similar shades. Misreading the pattern or skipping a symbol can result in errors, particularly with complex designs. Using a printed copy of your pattern and marking each stitch so you know what you've done, really helps. Also, there are now digital pattern apps like "Pattern Keeper" that allow you to keep track of your stitches.

When we realize we've made a mistake, it's easy to react and feel frustrated, disappointed, or even disheartened. These emotions are valid, but they don't have to derail our progress or enjoyment. Here's how to get back on track quickly. The first step in handling the emotions that arise from a mistake is to take a deep breath and remind yourself that errors are a part of learning and improving. It's important to give yourself a moment to process your feelings and approach the situation with a calm mind. Once you're ready, assess the mistake and plan a methodical fix. Using small scissors or a seam ripper, carefully remove the incorrect stitches. Take your time to ensure you don't damage the fabric. To maintain momentum and motivation, try to correct the mistake as soon as you notice it. This prevents the error from feeling overwhelming and keeps you engaged with your project. You always feel better once things are under control. Remember, every fix is a step towards mastering your craft, so embrace the process and keep stitching with confidence!